March 22. James 3. The Rondorfs
Words and Wisdom
Neil Rondorf
James writes of the power of the tongue. It is a powerful tool but in so being it has terrible potential for trouble and damage as well. We often think of great speeches or great books but it is frequently the small things that can be so very damaging. James wrote in Ch 1:19 about communication “quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger”. I remember (much to my shame) that early in our marriage I had the ability to give Cheryl the “silent” treatment (slow to speak to the point of saying nothing) if something went sideways. This was not righteous self-control but intentional silence. I did more damage by not saying what needed to be said than I could have done by trying to talk to her about what upset me. We have learned to talk through the things that get difficult or hurtful. It has taken effort, focus, forgiveness, and openness in our relationship. In the same way, we have to learn some things with regard to how we communicate digitally. The internet, social media, You-Tube, etc can be a powerful tool but a simple word, quick comment or short video posted can be extremely harmful to our relationships and our fellowship. We can “set ablaze by such a small fire”(James 3:5). Things we have an opinion on or attitude with can be dangerous if we do not carefully consider the impact of our words or images. God intends our lives -in person or digitally - to be an example to the world. An offer of salvation, joy, and relief from the world. Is that how we view our digital presence? We cannot be one person on social media and a different person in fellowship - that is hypocrisy (1 Peter 2:1)
Cheryl Rondorf
What a contrast between verses 14-16 and verses 17-18! You can not have godly wisdom while harboring bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart. Those traits are the exact opposite of peaceable, gentle reasonable, full of mercy, and good fruits.
It says in the NIV Study Notes that:’Wisdom is not just acquired information but practical insight with spiritual implications.’ Check your heart! Where do you stand?